It’s painful when someone you genuinely love cheats on you. In fact, it breaks the heart really bad. Sometimes, you may ask yourself if you aren’t good enough for him. Well, darling, you are unique and beautiful. Just that a cheat is always a cheat no matter how he tries to hide it.
Your man has no reason to cheat on you. As a matter of fact, no excuse is every enough to justify cheating on someone you love. If someone has cheated on you before, you will understand what I mean.
In this article, I’ll share with you some of the heartbreaking lies Nigerian men give when you catch them cheating.
Lies Nigerian Men give When You Catch Them Cheating
Without much ado, here are some of the excuses Nigerian men give when you catch them cheating…
#1. She Seduced Me
We have heard this several times. Most men caught cheating always claimed that the other person seduced them. Well, even if the story is true, he could have resisted the temptation and say No. You can always fight temptation if you genuinely love your partner.
#2. She Didn’t Mean Anything To Me
When you catch a Nigerian man cheating, he will always tell you that the girl means nothing to him. Trust me, the last thing your partner wants to hear is you telling her that the person doesn’t mean anything to you.
#3. It Was The Devil’s Handiwork
You hear that right. Nigerian men also blame the devil for cheating on their wives. Isn’t that funny? Well, it’s one of the most common excuses men give when you catch them cheating.
#4. I Didn’t Want To Do It but…
He will always tell you that I never wanted to do it. But I don’t know what came over me. Well, if he respects your feelings and the relationship, trust me, he could have overcome any temptation because he won’t want to hurt you for any reason.
#5. It Was Never My Intention To Hurt You
Once you catch him redhanded, he will tell you it’s never his intention to hurt you. Really? He has been sleeping with different girls in the neighbourhood, yet he claimed he never intended to hurt you.
Do you really fall for that lie? Let me tell you the truth… If he doesn’t want to hurt you, he won’t have cheated on you in the first place.
#6. It Only Happened Once
Don’t expect your guy to agree that he has been cheating on you. He will only admit if you catch on the act. And he will tell you that since he has been with you, this is the only time he has been tempted to cheat on you. Well, you don’t expect your boyfriend to admit that he’s a serial cheat, do you?
#7. You Are The One I Truly Love
Another common lie your man will tell when you catch him cheating is, “You are the one I truly love, I’m just passing the time with her.”
But he fails to understand how heartbreaking that statement makes you feel. Ask yourself; if you were to turn the table around, he catches you cheating on him, will he take it likely. Of course, the answer is NO.
Any man that cheats on you doesn’t deserve your love. Even if he begs and promises to turn a new leaf, he will always cheat on you again. Do you know why? A snake is still a snake; it doesn’t matter if the skin changes.